Being emotionally scarred
Let’s be honest, it doesn’t matter how old you are or what country you live in, everyone’s parents have emotionally scarred them in one way or another.
My mom, the culprit
The other day, my mom went through some of her old things to see if there is any of her stuff she can give or throw away. I guess she hasn’t been spring cleaning for quite some time because she came across stuff from her university days.
Among these things was her old gym outfit. She asked me if I wanted it and, knowing my mother, I asked to see it first.
As she took it out of the bag, she said, “You’ll love it.”
I didn’t love it.
Let the emotional scarring commence
It was the tiniest leotard I had ever seen. And to think she wore that IN PUBLIC. I was mortified. The leotard in question:
What was my mom’s defence? “It was the eighties, dear.”
It gets better.
She told me that she didn’t wear just the leotard alone. According to her, “that would just be weird.” I felt a little better then. I thought she must have worn a big T-shirt over the leotard.
I was wrong.
She then proceeded to take a bikini bottom out of the bag and told me that she used to wear that over the leotard. Oh the horror!
It surprised her when I said that I would never wear it. But come on, I don’t want to walk around looking like a promiscuous superman. (Maybe for my fiancé but not in public.)
I’m so grateful that I was born in a more fashion friendly age.
What about you?
Did your parents ever embarrass you with their fashion choices? I would love to hear about it in the comments.
Michelle
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Zoewiezoe
Kinda harsh to shove that under emotional scarring though, isn’t it 🤔🙈
I mean…fashionwise the 80s definitely have a loooot to atone for but hey…remember how denim on denim on denim used to be a thing too 🤭🤣
And god, those almostgone lined eyebrows of the 00s. Yikes!
That Michelle Person
Well yes, ’emotional scarring’ is just me being dramatic. And yes, we as a ‘civilisation’ has gone through quite a few questionable fashion fads.
Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂
Michelle
Ha ha. Your mom is right – that is what we did in the eighties. Even worse was just a pair of tights with a bikini-type bottom over top of them. And don’t get me started on the legwarmers. Thanks for the smile. LOL
That Michelle Person
Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂
Jasmine | Poppies and Jasmine
My mom had what we called “crazy pants”. They were stretchy legging/stirrup-style pants in wild, bright colored prints. She’d pair them with a tshirt or sweatshirt and a pair of hightops – very 80s. God, I hated those pants. Nowadays, I have the rule – she can wear whatever she wants, but if she wants to go somewhere with me, it can’t be crazy pants.
That Michelle Person
Haha crazy pants! That’s amazing. At least you have established some boundaries now.
Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂
Rachel
🤣
Hayley
‘a promiscuous superman’ haha!! Funny how things change isn’t it! We look at things now, but they were totally normal back then – we will have the same in the future generation for sure! Hayley || hayleyxmartin
That Michelle Person
That is true, fashion changes all the time.
Thanks for reading 🙂